Rekindle that relationship with your ex-girlfriend the right way
Anyone who has heartbreak experiences knows that there is no easy way to make someone fall in love with you or fall in love with you again. You can increase the chances of mending your relationship and rekindling your love by following a few guidelines.
Reach out and touch it
Playing too hard to get it is not the best way to get it back. Let him know that you are still interested in being a part of his life. Do not overdo it in communication, but also not less.
I know all ears, (but only when she wants you to)
Offer a keen ear to solve their problems. Fight the temptation to offer a solution or rush your goal. She just wants you to listen to her as she unburdens herself. You were in a relationship, it is possible that she only trusts you to vent certain things. I may just trust your opinion. Being there without trying to provide you with a solution and just listening to it can go a long way. Remember why she talks to you, remember why she feels comfortable venting only to you. Remember a lot of good things in place of what caused the breakup.
Send him an email (or text message) to stay in touch
If you can’t find calm, casual methods to stay in touch with your ex, you will never be able to get her back. Staying in touch is vital, but again, be casual. Let her know you are there, but don’t overwhelm her with love poetry. If you weren’t doing it in the relationship, or if you forgot to do it in the relationship, don’t do it now. Overwhelming her will only make her wonder why you didn’t take the time during the relationship to overwhelm her.
Treat her like a princess
Show him that you really care. Remember the most important anniversaries and dates of his life and let him know that you remember him. Remembering dates that also affect your family. Send him a card on his birthday. Send your parents an anniversary card. Your inner circle will be the first to comment on your new value. Let her know that you are thinking of her in a positive way.
Stay away from other girls
Nothing will get you down faster than dating other girls. No matter how understanding she is, if she sees or hears you dating other girls, she won’t give you another chance. He doesn’t care if that girl is your best friend and is offering you advice, he will only do it as a reason not to trust you. That uncertainty must be avoided at all costs. Call her, text her, whatever you can in a casual way, to let her know what you’re up to. It doesn’t sound that important, but it is better to let him know what you are doing than to imagine what you are doing. If you keep in touch even in a casual way, she won’t have to imagine that you are having fun all the time or imagine you having fun with another woman. If she knows that you care and keep thinking about her frequently, the argument that you are with someone else or having fun without her will be eliminated. This in turn goes a long way in her favor so that she wants to rekindle their relationship.
Of course, there is no exact science to getting your girlfriend back. With that said, there are some pretty straightforward suggestions that will get you in the right direction. Take the time to equip yourself with the proper guidelines. Don’t just count on your friends to give you the best advice, sometimes they have no idea what they’re talking about!