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The distance relationship strategy

She was in love with him. She never understood why he would completely distance himself from her after close and passionate encounters. When she demanded answers, he was adept at avoiding her with evasive answers. After a month of this behavior, she promised herself that she would not wait for him. To avoid the feeling of walking on glass during her unexplained absences, she went out with friends. Frustratingly, she was just as nervous during these trips to the club or shopping and couldn’t stop thinking about him. She often went home early only to face another empty night; Afraid of losing him entirely, she decided not to lash out. Her text messages went unanswered. When she called her phone, she was either on the answering machine or he sounded surprised and said she would call him back. he didn’t he Sometimes he would call her at night, and without saying a word he would hear her say “Hello? Hello?” Her phone was private. She somehow she knew it was him. Was she trying to instill fear in you or create a feeling of anxiety? It was creepy to think of him sitting in a chair somewhere, listening to her without answering. Still she was longing for his return.

THERE WAS A STRATEGY BEHIND HIS DISTANCE

He liked to think that he had become wise after his wife X left him. He knew that he had emotionally distanced himself from her, even avoiding being intimate with her. She had every right to leave him and worse yet, he was repeating the same bad behavior that he had seen his father treat his mother. Him seeing himself transform into his dad was infuriating. If he hated seeing his father treat his mother this way, what the hell had happened to him to do an encore performance? He didn’t make sense. It became a hobby for him, and with his X his wife walking out the door, he had the license to say, “Yeah, dad. Keep ’em in line. I get it.” To his surprise, the women seemed to love it. They were even more passionate in bed after a long and unfair estrangement from a man. And there were two types of women that he discovered. The good ones were boring and too easy to walk on. They were the strong women he loved to play the game of distance with. Seeing a wild mare turn soft and pleading was an ego boost. The higher the executive position they held, the more they acted like hurt girls when they were emotionally hurt. It was an incredible revelation.

BEWARE OF THE INCONSISTENT DISTANCE

Distancing is an empowering action that often points to control issues. Whether the person drifting apart, male or female, is a free spirit showing up only to be healed in crisis, or a scarred individual seeking to avoid closeness, constant and unexplained drifting is a red flag that says “Careful”.

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