Realization of dreams

We all have dreams. Some of us dream of winning the lottery and never having to work again (also the most unrealistic dream). Other dreams of going to college, retiring, traveling. Still others dream of working from home. Some even want to have their own business. Whatever your dreams are, the realization of them is extremely important. We need our dreams to move forward.
For many of us, our destiny is based on the dreams we have for ourselves. Think of your dreams as mini goals. There are certain things you want to do in the next month, the next three months, the next six months, or the next year.
For those of you who believe your destiny is predetermined and there’s nothing you can do about it, I don’t think so. Yes, bad things happen. We all go through periods when nothing seems to be going right for us. However, you cannot sit back and wait for a miracle to happen. It doesn’t work that way. To realize your dreams you have to make something happen. You and only you control your destiny and the realization of your dreams. You have to set mini goals for yourself, and if you’re having trouble reaching those goals, ask for help. We all have something we are good at. However, some of us need help developing our skills. So ask for help. Don’t just decide you can’t do it. Also, don’t make your goals unrealistic. Start small and work from there.
Your dream could be to have your own business. However, before he can do that, he must become proficient in that area. To become proficient, you may need to take classes or work at a job related to the business you want to run, to gain insight. Any number of other things may have to happen before you realize that dream.
While we all have our strong areas and things we’re good at, they don’t always mesh with our dreams. The skills you need to realize your dreams can be learned, but only if you ask for help. So if the reason your dreams aren’t coming true is a lack of skills, ask someone for help. You won’t know if you’re good or bad at something until you try it. Yes, sometimes you may have to give up certain dreams for others, however that is part of the life process.
One of the best ways to move toward realizing your dreams is to visualize yourself doing what your dream is about. If it’s retirement, visualize yourself during a typical day of your retirement. Visualize the house you live in, when you get up, visualize your daily routine.
So, to realize your dreams, remember that your destiny is based on the dreams you have for yourself, and you control that destiny.
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