BigIdeas2018 – Being yourself is the best gift
# BigIdeas2018 – A viral term in all social networks and all the pioneers, the laity are documenting their words. And, let me take this term now, those of you who are expecting important conclusions, please stop here.
This is for those beautiful women trying to balance work and home in the smaller cities. (Passion or responsibility doesn’t matter and honestly, is it responsibility most of the time and smaller cities? Yes, I mean it)
Being a home and office balancer and especially in a smaller city, I have been a fence keeper in most cases many times. Does this sound like a serious tone? No, I am not, as most of them are simple things, but I would like to address them.
# MyBigIdeas2018 on smaller things that can create tons of good vibes about BEING YOURSELF
Say yes to the messy home: surrounded by family, visits are quite frequent. Don’t go out of your way to clean everything in one go just for your lunch or dinner visit. Make them understand that you work 6 days a week and even on your 1-day vacation, you go to work. Say YES, my house is messy, I’ll clean it up.
Say yes to gossip – Bahu, I heard you don’t cook well and you always run to the office. With a sweet smile, answer YES, I don’t. Do not try to explain.
Say yes, my husband helps wash containers – generation gaps, today’s lifestyle scenario are the two terms everyone should try to get into. Feel free to say YES my husband helps me wash the containers or is it your duty please wash the containers dear. It is worth sharing.
Say yes to one-time food: Your choice is to have at least one meal out twice a month or a week, when you feel like it. Say YES, to the one-time meal for WHO. Don’t feel bad or guilty about hearing your “Those Days” stories. Listen to them but keep what you feel.
Say yes to your time: do what you want and when you want to do it. Work 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, is guaranteed, and those who do not have maids, insurance. Say YES to your own time and don’t think that you have to clean your closet at this time. Doing what you love gives you a lot of positive vibes that can be reflected in your next job. (Although it is something simple and silly like EATING your favorite chat snacks or an outing with your Bestie or Sistie or Hustie)
Say yes to personal care – everyone is busy doing their own jobs and gossiping. Whether you are good or bad, there are PEOPLE who speak. Say YES to caring for yourself.
This may sound arrogant and mean BUT, it is YOU who lives your life. Self-care and self-respect are more important in today’s lifestyle, as an empty container cannot serve anyone. Believe in: Being REAL is better than an artificial MASK.
Create your beautiful life with a lighter heart and real emotions.