Cold detachment can be your warmest friend

When the effort slips away and you feel tired, but still realize that you have to continue and finish what you are striving to do despite feelings of tiredness and laziness that can get in the way of ultimate achievement; the only way out and path to a second wind is cold and objective persistence “like a machine”. Do this, until you realize how to overcome your worst enemies, which are feelings of tiredness and laziness. The first sentence may seem rambling, but I had to fit the gist of this article into one sentence so that the rest could be nicely explained and realistically broken down with complete purity of understanding.

Realize that your best friend is success and discipline. Realize the reality of the situation that is to be welcomed and fulfilled and follow that reality. That is the only reality that counts. No other fantasy counts. No other fantasy works. Only reality is reality. Now for sure, this article seems like some kind of pep talk. It is not. It is a genuine call to integrate your life with what you honestly want from life within you and then outside of you. In that order. You, as a conscious being with awareness, are your own decision maker, decision fixer, and your own technician. In this aspect, fear and irrational subjectivity is your worst enemy. It causes abandonment, failure and destruction if you let it. Note that I use the words “leave it”. Because since you have a conscience and a choice in all matters, if you have the intelligence and functionality to understand this article, you always have a choice to create success and make efforts on your part to create success. Because peace of mind does not come from enemies, but only from friends who are completely for you, no matter what. That’s the kind of friend that self-made success is, a friend who won’t betray you except when you falter or sabotage your own efforts. In fact, you must genuinely listen to yourself in order to know, determine and achieve, in that order, what you really want, need and achieve in a genuinely valuable way.

Life is made and created by coldly rational universal laws that are invariably viable and immutable. When used correctly, they create and produce warm, happy emotions and workable reality. When misused, they create failure, frustration, and sadness. This concept in this short paragraph is the key to understanding how and why to be consistently successful in a self-created and self-constructed way.

So, sure, I’m coldly rational and honest. But my feelings while writing this article are warm and helpful, this is an example that I am talking about when I write this article. I know a writer isn’t supposed to use himself as an example while writing his own article, but if he wants first-hand proof that this advice works, it’s better to show it that way. Because honesty is how honesty does, shows and then is real. Because no one is free or good until they are totally honest with everyone, including themselves. This is the concept of genuine self-denial, and note that I don’t mean anything altruistic or unreasonably self-sacrificing, I mean totally rational thought and act that is geared towards self-interest, but encompasses compassion for others. within the total ratio. I would say that altruism and unreasonable sacrifice are “beyond me”, but I won’t, now that I understand the real, genuine and honest nature of these things. People who sacrifice what they want and love are just immaturely seeking to look good on themselves and others, and they don’t even mature themselves rationally. Destructively satisfying irrational emotional needs is not maturity, it is destruction and dishonesty. It is being an enemy of yourself and practicing self-hate. Maturity and personal fulfillment is the ultimate in self-love, consistency, self-discipline, and success.

In fact, practicing understanding and loving oneself is not immature. As it is also ripe to create a great and desirable life for yourself. Doing what is genuinely best for you and then everyone else is the best approach to life, because you can’t love others if you don’t love yourself first and then pay yourself first, in that order. Rational discipline thus functions as a coldly objective universal law that does not vary. In fact, you cannot benefit anyone else or pay anyone else without having what you have yourself. Self-responsibility is power, genuine power.