Do you want to date younger women? Here are the guidelines

Younger women … dating is just a fantasy for most older singles. However, a few years ago I realized that most younger women are quite open to dating older men. You just need to know how to introduce yourself and engage with them properly. Here are some of the simple guidelines I use to date girls 10 or more years younger than me:

1) Remember, younger women don’t care that you’re older. In fact, it’s almost always the guy who makes a big deal out of the age difference and spoils it himself. There are a couple of ways that men do this: either they overcompensate by trying to act youthful, dressing up like teenagers, highlighting their hair, or trying to be Mr. Cool Party Guy. Or they try to act too mature and draw attention to the age difference. Instead, be cool about it.

2) Don’t be too aggressive. One thing you don’t want to be with a younger woman is too aggressive … A 22-year-old, for example, may have only slept with a handful of men in her entire life. So, take your time and don’t try to exercise right away. Obviously, you have to climb at some point, but try to show some restraint. As long as you have a sexual vibe with her from the start, you won’t be included in the category of fair friends just because you don’t try to put her in bed the first day you meet her.

3) Act like a man. When you date a younger woman, she is likely to be impressed with your class and sophistication. She’s used to playing beer pong and getting beaten up by drunk frat boys, so teach her something different. Pull her stool off the bar, help her put on her jacket, and guide her through a crowded restaurant by touching her small back. Things like this will show him that you, unlike his friends from college, know how to treat a lady. You don’t want to do these chivalrous acts in a butt-kissing way to win her approval. Be gentle about it.

Since I discovered all this, I have had the opportunity to date many younger women. Now I think it’s really funny when I hear older guys talking about how they wish they could flirt with younger girls … It’s like DUH, can you, why don’t you get off me and do something?