Get your wife back after cheating on you with this smooth move
It really only takes one really good move to get your wife back after cheating. The problem is that it definitely has to be the right, smooth move to be effective in getting her attention and getting her heat back.
The problem most men in your situation face is that your wife started building walls around her heart the moment she found out about his cheating. She was incredibly hurt by the fact that you cheated on her. It doesn’t matter how she found out about it. Your mission now, if you want to save your marriage, is to help her move on with your marriage.
However, this is where things get tricky. If you make the wrong move, no matter how smooth, you could be enjoying a nice bonfire of your prized vinyl record collection, courtesy of an angry wife.
No one wants to endure that kind of devastation or personal anguish. Better than serving the business end of your cast iron skillet collection, I suppose, though.
But there is one thing you CAN do, one move, however small, that can make all the difference in the world where your wife is concerned. You have to let her know how much you appreciate her. It has to be a “no strings attached” gesture to be effective.
This is how you do it.
Step 1
Ask your wife out with you. How long has it been since you two have gone on a date together anyway? This date should be a night out for just the two of you. No strings attached. No pressure. Just the two of you went out to dinner together… maybe a little dancing. You have to go to a place where you can talk and it’s public. Movies are usually outside and long walks in the park can be too secluded for comfort. Dinner cruises or just nice dinners at a favorite restaurant work well.
Step 2
Don’t use this time to pressure your wife to take you back. Instead, make the point of the evening how grateful you are to your wife for all the things she does for you to make your life better. Let her know how much better her life is because she’s in it. Let her know how much of a better man you are for having known her. Do not exert pressure one way or the other. State your case and say good night.
Step 3
Give your wife time to think about your date and the things you said. This no-pressure date where you made her feel like the most important woman in your world is the only “smooth move” you’ll need to win her back. The more time she has to think about it, the more she’ll remember all the reasons why she fell in love with you in the first place.