How to be a respectable wife? (Be an elite woman)
Being a respectable wife is never easy, especially in a long-term relationship when you share any and all private secrets with your husband.
Relationship experts tend to exaggerate the importance of respect. According to them, if you earn respect, you will have authority over all your words and actions. Respect will exponentially increase the effectiveness of your words and make everyone pay attention every time you speak. Respect is one of the keys to a happy and successful long-term relationship.
Here are some tips for you that will help you become a respectable wife in the eyes of your husband.
movies vs real life
Hollywood greatly inspires unrealistic expectations of women. It exaggerates the emotional feelings of women and constructs events that are not possible in real life. So remember that movies can help you discover what you’re missing, but they don’t tell you how to find love in everyday life. If you want her husband to deliver perfect lines with perfect emotions/feelings, you will not only lower her standard in his eyes, but also drive the love out of the relationship from her.
The reality is that movie actors are trying to play a part of what women commonly expect in their own love lives. They arouse passionate feelings of love and aggravate women to expect unrealistic things from their men. They force women to believe that only a few women are blessed in this world to enjoy an exclusive relationship, because those women have an extraordinary man in their lives. The silent message of the films obliquely compels women to compare their husbands to other extraordinary men and gives them a relevant opportunity to reflect on their relationship.
On the other hand, a husband hates when his wife compares him to movie actors and expects him to be extraordinary. This behavior makes the husband ask why his wife is in the relationship if she is not happy with her real qualities. The comparison completely dents his self-esteem and he begins to disrespect his wife.
Once a man stops respecting you, he will have no problem abusing you. So, never compare him to other men if you want to be a respectable wife. It’s that easy.
show your value
To gain a man’s respect, a woman must learn to display her core values. Women assume that being a good person in a relationship is enough to be respectable. Being nice positively increases the chances of being respectable, but the most important thing is to make him realize your value. Your values make your man realize how lucky he is to have you in his life.
You can show your value to your husband in many ways. For example, becoming an expert in something. This is one of the quickest ways to show value and be respectable in the eyes of her husband. If you just rely on your romantic gestures instead of becoming an expert at something, you will soon lose value to your man. Below are some examples for you.
If you love to cook, become the best cook. Experiment with new dishes, or take a dish your husband loves to have and become an expert on it. Find quality raw ingredients, get hands-on with the world’s best recipes first, and watch cooking shows. Show him your worth by cooking a variety of tasty things and earn his respect.
If you love horseback riding, hire an experienced riding instructor to learn good horsemanship skills. Hone your horse knowledge and master all horse riding techniques to become the best horseman.
Your experience drives him to realize your worth, lay a solid foundation of love in the relationship, make him proud of you, and exaggerate your respect.
Men love strong and elite women
According to men, there is nothing more attractive than a strong, elite and intelligent woman. Don’t get me wrong here, men aren’t just looking for a savvy rich or business woman; they want a woman with whom they can have an intelligent dialogue, who has high values, who is involved in other activities, who has authority in her field, and who is extremely loving. This type of woman sounds like the perfect woman to men.
By doing a few specific things, it is very simple and extremely effective to force him to believe that you are a strong, respectable, elite woman. The trick is to do those things that he respects within you and feel immensely attracted to. For example: he solves problems efficiently, is exuberant in his work, maximizes his confidence, loves animals and plants, rides a horse, and acts like a desirable queen. These actions not only magnify your self-esteem but also generate an aura of immense attraction that makes men fall in love.
The problem is that women usually exaggerate about being beautiful and sexy; Of course, this helps attract a man, but you can’t keep him attracted forever because millions of other women are doing the same thing. When you deliberately focus on your beauty, but your attitude and qualities suck, a man will never be able to deeply associate with you on an emotional and sexual level. However, if you have strong and elite qualities and characteristics, it will be easier for you to make him fall in love with you and respect you.