How To Get My Ex Back By New Year’s Eve – Put These Super Effective Techniques To Good Use!
Hears! I don’t think your Christmas is going so well. You still miss your ex and want him back, don’t you? I was in your shoes last year. I thought about it this Christmas eve. I got my daughter back and we are deeply in love. So I decided to write this article so that I can help people like you to get her ex back by New Year’s Eve.
If you follow all the techniques outlined in this article, you have a 90% chance of getting your ex back by New Year’s Eve and a 99% chance of getting your ex back a month from now. The remaining one percent is on her shoulders. Does it depend on how much you want them back? Do you agree to listen to my techniques and recommendations? If you follow my recommendations, you are guaranteed to get your ex back. I pray that you get your ex back.
Step #1 – Get them to call you
This step is for those whose ex has been ignoring them for a while. If your ex ignores you and doesn’t answer your calls, use this trick. Send them a well thought out message. You can send a message or leave a voice message. It’s your choice. But make sure your voice is perfect and you don’t get emotional halfway through. Getting excited will mess things up.
Your message should arouse your ex’s curiosity and self-interest. When you try to hide something, people become more curious to know about it. Humans can’t resist secrets. So use the principle of curiosity to your advantage.
Your message must talk about a secret involving your ex. don’t reveal the secret yet. Make them fight!
This is an example of a message you should not send:
“Hello, {Name}. It’s me. Merry Christmas! Call me, I want to talk to you about something important”
They will never call you back if you send a message like that.
Here’s an example of a message that triggers curiosity and self-interest:
“Hi, {Name}. It’s me. Merry Christmas! I wanted to tell you that I appreciate what you did for me. Call me because I want to thank you in person.”
Your ex will call you in a few minutes. It works one hundred percent of the time. So get ready for the call.
Step #2 Emotional Detachment
Emotional Detachment is very important if you are looking for success. Emotions have the power to overload you or make you nervous. If your heart is full of positive emotions like hope, happiness, courage, love, faith, etc., everything will be fine for you. Things will work out even if you make mistakes.
Unfortunately, we are human. We do not control our own emotions. We can control spaceships, animals, etc. but we don’t have much control over our own emotions. Doubts are in place. Doubts can get in the way and cause a lot of anxiety. That anxiety can ruin your plans.
That’s why you have to emotionally detach yourself from the outcome. Emotional detachment means two different things.
“In the first sense, it refers to the inability to emotionally connect with others, as well as a way of coping with anxiety by preventing certain situations that trigger it – often described as ’emotional numbing’ or dissociation.” -Wikipedia
“In the second sense, it is a type of mental assertiveness that allows people to maintain their limits and psychic integrity in the face of the emotional demands of another person or group of people. These senses are within the framework of psychology and academia, not those. from everyone else in the world.” -Wikipedia
I mean the second. You have your own interests. Their behavior and actions must be followed to protect their own interests. There are four types of behaviors:
- Win-win behavior
- Win-lose behavior
- Lose-win behavior
- Lose-lose behavior
Win-win behavior – The bravest people are those who have this pattern of behavior. You must adapt to this pattern of behavior if you want to live a life full of happiness and joy.
Both must win. But first you must win. Help yourself so you can help others. Your ex would not have broken up with you if you had this pattern of behavior. This behavior is the coolest. Abraham Lincoln is the ideal example of this behavior.
Win-lose behavior – This is a pattern of behavior adapted by people who have a lot of anxiety. Examples of people with this behavior are available throughout history. Take a look at Hitler, Mussolini, etc. This pattern of behavior leads to failed relationships.
Lose-win behavior – This is called sacrificing oneself, also known as Sacrificing oneself for the good of others. The martyrs are an example of this type of behavior. Your ex could have broken up with you if you had this pattern of behavior.
Lose-lose behavior – Jihadist terrorists and suicide bombers are an example of this.
Develop a win-win behavior pattern. Mental assertiveness should not be confused with being intentionally cold or obnoxious, because it is a positive mental attitude (win-win behavior pattern).
Step #3 Be mature
It’s time to grow up. Take some responsibility. Your partner would not have left you without a specific reason. Find out why they left you? It takes about twenty minutes to analyze it. Write down all the problems.
If you’ve made some mistakes, tell them you’re sorry (just once, no more than once!). Accept your mistakes and fix them. Create an action plan to solve those problems.
Step #4 Mother of yourself
Do not criticize yourself for any reason. You are deep and rich inside. You are really wonderful. You love your ex and decided to seek help. Most people never do that. It tells me how big you are inside. Believe me, only a few in this world will choose to get help with their love problems. They all have many egos.
Say beautiful things to yourself. Write a list of affirmations and repeat the affirmations to yourself repeatedly. Make sure you eat well. Don’t lock yourself in a room as punishment. Tonight, go out to the bar and hang out with your friends. Have some good conversations with the people you see at the bar.
Step #5 Grow
“Committing to CAN! – Constant and Endless Improvement” – Anthony Robbins. Time for a little introspection. Find out where you stand in your life.
- If you are overweight, lose it.
- If you’re skinny, build muscle.
- get a new title
- get a raise
Set goals, create plans, and follow those plans. I recommend that you read Napoleon Hill’s Think and Grow Rich. It is a truly life-transforming book that will help you achieve anything you want in life.
Do things to improve your personality. If you’re not good with humor, read Secrets to Writing Comedies.
Step #6 Connect with your ex
If you want your ex back, you have to connect with your ex. Connect with them and let them know that you truly care about their life. Ask them:
How are you doing?
What do you like to do the most? (Shortly after they answer, ask them why they don’t.)
Which are your future plans?
Also talk about your life. Talk about your plans, the things you did, the changes you made.
Get closer to your ex and build mutual trust and respect. Call them on the third day and invite them to a party on New Year’s Eve. Also invite your friends. Call your friends and organize a party. Otherwise, ask a friend of yours to host the party. Tell your ex that your friend wants him to come over. They will please you.
Step #7 Amplifies Attraction and Sexual Tension
During the party, dance with one of your ex’s friends. Dance with someone else and let them be alone for a while. They sure get jealous. When he looks at you, ignore him for a while. And then all of a sudden walk up to them and start a conversation. Everything should happen suddenly, that is, accidentally. Your ex must feel like it happened accidentally. Serendipity is so romantic!
Immediately, leave them for a while. Come back and make them dance with you. Don’t ask them for a dance. She pulls them off and starts dancing. They will both kiss soon. And this is how you can get your ex back by New Year’s Eve. The plan has been revealed to you. During your trip, watch these movies and learn something from them. These are the movies you must see:
- The Secret by Rhonda Byrne (Download it online. No time to hire it)
- Fight Club (If you’re a man. Watch Tyler Durden)
- Count of Monte Cristo (If you are a man. Watch as the character Edmond Dantes becomes Count Monte Cristo)