Marriage Advice For Men: How To Show Your Wife That You Really Need Her In Your Life
Marriage advice for men is too often given as advice for men and women at the same time. Men and women think very differently, so why is advice NOT given differently for men than it is for women?
The decision to start or end the marriage is easy. The decision to SAVE a marriage is a difficult one. Making that decision means that you are ready to work hard and invest a lot of time into it. Although my opinion may be different from yours, I believe that your marriage IS worth saving. And I think you feel the same way, otherwise you wouldn’t be taking the time to read this right now. So, let’s cut to the chase and get your marriage back on the right track!
A marriage is something very special. It is an association of two different lives, united as one. This means that although you are two different people, you should try to live as one; you must be one of the same wavelength, so to speak.
Marriages today face very difficult situations. Money struggles and affairs are at the top of the list for divorce reasons. Even if you face these problems, you CAN save your marriage!
Men were raised to hide their emotions, and women were raised to show them. Society somehow made this a rule. You do NOT have to hide your emotions; in fact, by doing so, you may be damaging your marriage!
When you feel upset or sad, don’t be afraid to talk to your wife. It is possible that I wonder why the problems do not concern you; your actions may well be showing him that you don’t care about the marriage. I know that’s not how you FEEL, but it’s what she’s seeing. While it can be hard to show it to her, you absolutely have to open up to her. Just between you two. Let her know what she is feeling. Let him know how much he really means to you. If you can’t tell him, you will definitely have to work within yourself to find the strength. You have it in you!
More than being told, women need to be SHOWN that they are loved and appreciated. But how are you supposed to do that? Actually, it is quite simple. Start small. Do something that you know should be done around the house. Something as simple as taking out the trash will show your wife that you know she works hard and that you want to try to help her.
When she washes the dishes, don’t say anything, just go and help her. Dry them and save them for her. By doing this, you are showing her, not telling her, that you really love her. While these things may not seem important to a man, they are extremely important to a woman. When a marriage is in trouble, words are rarely heard. Her actions will show her that she means everything to you and that you are willing to do whatever it takes to keep her in your life.