Mutually Beneficial Relationships: A Good Sugar Baby vs. A Mediocre Sugar Baby

Things that can increase confidence in my sugar baby:

1) She is on time for an appointment. That makes me feel like she values ​​the potential of our mutually beneficial relationship.

2) If you are late, send me a text message. Show consideration and courtesy. You’ll be surprised how many skip this step!

3) She responds to emails and texts within a reasonable amount of time.

4) She initiates contact with me at some point: it shows that she is thinking of me, which is a nice thing!

5) It meets the commitments it makes, that is, it does not keep canceling dates.

6) She says thank you when I do something nice for her (this is very easy to do but you’ll be surprised how many people forget the word ‘thank you’)

7) She does little things that show that she appreciates me. It doesn’t even matter how cheap they are. One just bought me a slice of my favorite key lime pie, impromptu: it’s the idea that counts

Things that make me doubt my sugar baby:

1) She is constantly texting or receiving random calls. I don’t mind checking from time to time, but if you have to check every message, it just means we’re not right for each other.

2) She always hints at her needs outside of the agreed arrangement. I don’t mind helping out in an emergency, but if you’re constantly asking me for things, it means you’re a gold digger. At least pretend you’re not. It’s just more elegant

3) She constantly talks about her boyfriend. I’m not the jealous type, so I don’t mind hearing it from time to time, but if you keep talking about it, it seems useless.

4) She wants to avoid being seen in public with me. If you don’t feel comfortable with me (I’m really not that ugly, trust me!), then again, we’re not right for each other. Just come and say it, and I’ll appreciate your honesty.