Seduce your man in love by connecting with his feminine essence
Why do we attract each other? What is it about?
Sometimes I feel this attraction like an electric current that almost lifts my hair.
It can be so strong, our bodies drawn to each other so intensely, completely magnetized to each other.
What is this attraction?
Why is it so strong with some men and nonexistent with others?
I think a large part is about our opposite polarities. The more polarized our magnets are, the stronger the attraction.
Do you want a strong man by your side?
A stable, reliable man capable of loving you through all your emotional states?
If so, you need to relax more on your soft feminine side to awaken your strong masculine side.
“There is nothing that awakens, supports and sustains the normal sexual passion in a man as much as a woman of strong sex fills her aura towards him with a strong, firm and self-controlled attractiveness: tender, loving, admiring, but deliciously sensual and aesthetically voluptuous; pure, but deep, warm and seductive “.
– J William Lloyd
We all have both male and female energy.
Male energy is direct, focused, penetrating, solid, purpose-oriented, and structured. It is based on values and thrives on achieving set goals. Sometimes in our lives, we all need masculine energy to achieve our goals, complete projects, and cut through lies and harmful emotional states.
Feminine energy is fluid, smooth, in the moment, changeable, intuitive, driven by love, and nurturing. It is based on emotional states and thrives on relating to others. Men and women need access to feminine energy to create more love, care for others, and build harmonious relationships.
As women, it is healthy and satisfying for us to spend more time on our feminine energy, especially when relating to our romantic partner. It is healthy and satisfying for men to be in their masculine energy more often, especially when relating to their beloved woman. That said, it can sometimes be very exciting and rewarding to invest energies and explore the other side of ourselves and our partners. This can feel like you are in a relationship with two different people, and then your love life will never be boring.
For the feminine side to be discovered in all its beauty, you need to feel safe and supported by the masculine side.
To avoid dependency on our partners, it is a great idea to develop our own inner masculine side so that our feminine side can flourish.
A woman with a developed inner masculine aspect has the ability to plunge into her deep femininity whenever she wishes, becoming fluid, soft and magnetic. Such a woman will awaken a strong masculinity in her partner. You will be attracted to men with mature masculine qualities and you will feel loved by your man.
If a woman is not in touch with her feminine essence, she may tend to spend more time functioning in her masculine mode. A man of such a woman is likely to function more in his feminine energy and stop developing his masculine qualities. If you are looking for a partner, you will likely attract a softer, more indecisive and emotional man who is immature on his masculine side.
This type of relationship is often unbalanced and keeps both partners dissatisfied on a deeper level. You want your partner to give you stability and provide you with a space where you feel safe to surrender, flow, and express your emotions. This is the deepest longing for the feminine. However, he feels like a driving force in that relationship. This makes your man feel unworthy and weak, overwhelmed by his emotions and domineering attitude.
The most attractive man to me is the one who is powerful, provides security, and lives a life of purpose. Likewise, he is able to express deep emotions and freely express his feelings, and he can recognize and follow his own intuition. This man successfully integrates both the mature male and the mature female. He is not afraid to break through lies and destructive emotional patterns, as well as cry when he feels like it.
How can you connect with your feminine essence on a regular basis? Maybe you need to take dance classes, or spend more time with your friends, or take a bubble bath or take a walk on the beach. What do you need to connect to your feminine essence? Share in the comments below.
With a hug
Tarisha