How to give a blowjob – The 7 critical factors to give a good blowjob
You’re reading this blowjob tutorial because you recognize the power of a great blowjob, so I won’t even go into the reasons why knowing how to give a good blowjob is important. Let’s get to the point.
1. No teeth (probably)
Less than 5% of men enjoy it when women use their teeth during a blowjob. So the best way to approach this is to ask him. Alternatively, you can try it (gently) and watch his reaction. If he says he likes it or gives other positive comments (like moaning), then you’ve found a guy who is in the 5% who likes teeth during a blowjob. If he says he doesn’t like him or gives some negative signal, obviously he doesn’t like him. And more importantly, if he doesn’t seem to react one way or the other, that means he doesn’t like teeth during a blowjob. He just doesn’t want to criticize you.
2. Don’t blow, suck
I know it’s called a blowjob, but that doesn’t mean you really suck it. However, sucking is recommended (as long as it doesn’t become a vacuum).
3. Wet it
During sex, lubrication is provided naturally. In other situations, however, you must provide the lubrication. During a blowjob, it’s easy to do because your saliva is readily available. It may sound gross, but the wetter the better. Fight the urge to swallow all your saliva, and it will be a more pleasurable blowjob for him.
4. Friction: the key principle
The greatest pleasure will be from friction (the rubbing back and forth). The more your lips move along its axis, the better it will feel. Of course, using just your lips will take your neck out. That brings us to number five.
5. Use your tongue during oral sex
Using your tongue during oral sex can be one of the most important ways to make your blowjob pleasurable for him. It’s also the easiest way to get creative when giving a blowjob. You can run it around in circles, move it around and explore for its ‘sweet spots’. So experiment with using your tongue during oral sex.
6. Use your hand
Just because it’s called oral sex doesn’t mean you can’t use your hand too. You can use your hand during oral sex in a variety of ways. I will give you some examples. First, you can give him a handjob along the shaft while using your mouth on his head. Second, you can grab the base with your hand during the blowjob, which will keep it nice and hard and make everything a little more sensitive. One last example of how to use your hand during oral sex: you can grab, rub, and hold his balls or butt while you suck. This can be a very powerful way to enhance your experience.
7. Enjoy it – Be sexy
I’ll end with the most important way to make sure you’re giving a good blowjob: enjoy it. Even if there are certain things that you find unpleasant, be sure to show him that you are enjoying it. Smile, make sexy sounds and tell him how much you enjoy it. This will add more to a great blowjob than anything else I can tell you. It could also be the most fun part for you.
There you have it: the 7 critical factors to give a good head. Following this blowjob tutorial will do wonders for your oral sex life.